Oh, p.s. - The only thing I would disagree with is that smell is a small thing. I think it's probably part and parcel with chemistry, and I no longer think of chemistry as negotiable.
My former husband and I had most things, but not really chemistry on my side. And that's a large part of (if not the whole reason) why polyamory turned into a divorce.
When I met Lee, with whom I had all the good aspects I had with my husband, but also a phenomenal chemistry, it totally floored me, and I realized I'd been missing it, missing it for years and years since my first boyfriend, who had chemistry with me, but no real possibility of a serious future.
Chemistry... Kissing... Yeah.
I'd totally write a dating zine with you. I think we could like, dispense advice and soforth. Or maybe I'm just babbling and I'm up too late. You tell me!
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Date: 2006-02-16 07:42 am (UTC)My former husband and I had most things, but not really chemistry on my side. And that's a large part of (if not the whole reason) why polyamory turned into a divorce.
When I met Lee, with whom I had all the good aspects I had with my husband, but also a phenomenal chemistry, it totally floored me, and I realized I'd been missing it, missing it for years and years since my first boyfriend, who had chemistry with me, but no real possibility of a serious future.
Chemistry... Kissing... Yeah.
I'd totally write a dating zine with you. I think we could like, dispense advice and soforth. Or maybe I'm just babbling and I'm up too late. You tell me!